Film presents a powerful platform for sharing stories—stories of what it means to be broken, to need others, and to be made whole. Hollywood and millions of T.V. viewers will gather this weekend to honor the year’s films they deem most exceptional at The Academy Awards. But TWLOHA wanted to take a moment to highlight the ones that affected us on a deeper level (some of which are also Oscar favorites). These are recent movies that had us crying into our popcorn, sparked insightful conversations with friends, and made us leave the theater feeling more alive. Some of them directly portray mental health issues, some of them simply carry messages of hope, but all of them share TWLOHA’s belief in the better days.
*Just a quick note: We do not mention these films to say they are suitable for everyone. We are recommending them for their positive themes and their willingness to engage in and elevate the conversation about mental health, not because they are perfect. As always, recognize your own boundaries and use discretion as you choose which movies you see.
Les Misérables
Tom Joyner’s take on Les Misérables is only the most recent in a long list of excellent adaptations of Victor Hugo’s redemptive story, but its vivid sets and stirring performances breathe new life into the classic tale. It’s up for a number of Oscars, and people are still talking about Anne Hathaway’s raw rendition of “I Dreamed a Dream.” But as always, what we’ll most remember about Les Misérables is the stunning example of forgiveness, compassion, and renewal in the life of Jean Valjean.
Best quote: “And remember the truth that once was spoken: to love another person is to see the face of God.”
The Perks of Being a Wallflower
Few books are quoted as often around TWLOHA as Stephen Chbosky’s novel, The Perks of Being a Wallflower. When it came time to bring these treasured words to the big screen, the author decided to assume the role of director and give them the respect they deserve. Abuse, bullying, suicide, troubling family history, and loneliness are just a few of the challenges Charlie, Patrick, and Sam’s teenage years present, but the group’s invincible longing for companionship, a fuller life, and the “infinite moments” has become a rallying point for people of all backgrounds and generations.
Best quote: “But even if we don’t have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel OK about them.”
Silver Linings Playbook
On the surface, Silver Linings Playbook is an unconventional romantic comedy with an all-star cast. But a closer viewing shows a heartbreakingly honest portrayal of families affected by mental illness. Drawing on his own experiences of raising a son with a mood disorder, director David O. Russell brings humor and humanity to experiences not always depicted onscreen, and it pulls stellar performances from the Oscar-nominated cast. This pleasant surprise of a film shows recovery isn’t a by-the-book progression, but rather, an awkward, imperfect, and joyful dance.
Best quote: “I can’t begin to explain… the craziness inside myself and everyone else. But guess what? Sunday’s my favorite day again. I think of what everyone did for me, and I feel like a very lucky guy.“
Lincoln
Abraham Lincoln’s legacy, though often simplified, tells of a beloved president intent on equality. Steven Spielberg’s lengthy biopic delves into some of the behind-the-scenes happenings of Lincoln’s final term and his efforts to both end the war and pass the 13th Amendment that would outlaw slavery. But it makes no secret of the fact that political games were played, families and parties were divided, and Lincoln and his wife, who had her own mental health struggles, had to sort through marital grief and pain in the process. Daniel Day-Lewis and the stream of A-list actors have received much praise for the film, but we were especially touched by its affirmation that persistence is more important than perfection if you want to see change.
Best quote: “Do you think we choose the times into which we are born? Or do we fit the times we are born into?”
Moonrise Kingdom
If you’re a fan of Wes Anderson, you know Moonrise Kingdom bears all the trademarks of his quirky films: pastel colors, quick panning shots, an old school soundtrack. It’s perhaps his most childlike work, but Moonrise Kingdom isn’t afraid to tackle important topics. Even in their naïveté, preteens Sam and Suzy, teach their parents and their community a lesson about loyalty with their refreshing eagerness to embrace each other’s shortcomings (and short tempers). Their runaway romance forces an unlikely search party to consider their own relationships and address the issues therein. It’s an ode to the truth that we all have our struggles, and not only is acknowledging that OK, but it helps us create an environment where everyone can truly belong.
Best quote: “It takes time to figure things out. It’s been proven by history: all mankind makes mistakes.”
Which films moved, encouraged, and inspired you this past year? We’d love to hear your input! Tell us more in the comments below.