Hey Guys.
My heart is light tonight. And it feels almost strange to type that. Because i remember so much wrestling and the weight of so many different Decembers. i don’t know if it’s the holidays or the year’s coming to a close but this time of year has a way of reminding us what’s missing, reminding us what hurts… i feel like i’ve been there a lot in recent years.
If you can relate to any of that tonight – to things missing or things changed or lost or broken – we just want to take a moment to say that it matters. Your story and your pain, your hopes and fears and dreams. It matters. You matter. Tonight and tomorrow and ten years from now. We’re sorry for your hurts, for empty seats and elephants in rooms and dreams that feel impossible.
John Mayer said it well in a tweet earlier tonight: “Sending a heartfelt Merry Christmas to those who feel loneliness this time of year. You’re not alone. Hang in there.”
We’ll add to that: Keep going. Keep fighting. Talk to someone. Get the help you need. Your life is worth fighting for. Your dreams, your story, the things that make you come alive – those things deserve to shine. You deserve a friend. You deserve to be loved, to be known. Whatever you’re carrying – whatever aches or haunts or steals – you were never meant to carry it alone. Bono sings “We get to carry each other.” He suggests that it’s a privilege, that it’s the best way to live. You were meant to walk with other people, to invite other characters to play parts in your story.
Wherever you’re at tonight, however heavy or light the night is, whatever scene it finds you living – please know that you matter very much. Please know that you are something priceless, something beautiful and entirely unique. There is hope for you. There is hope for all of us. 2010 has never happened before and the same is true about tomorrow.
A prayer for you, or perhaps a wish if you prefer it said that way: We hope these things feel true. We hope you know you matter. We hope you find your smile. You deserve it -you absolutely do.
Merry Christmas / Happy Holidays / Happy 2010.
Peace to you tonight.
jamie