Healing a Suicide Attempt: Cartooning My Experience

By Amani OmejerNovember 2, 2016

A version of this post originally appeared on The Huffington Post. This post includes some adult language. 

In April 2012, I attempted suicide. It was an incredibly intense time, but in many ways the time that followed the attempt was even more intense than the time that led to it.

The road I walked after my attempt was different than the one I walked before I attempted. There was a deeper and more unfamiliar chaos on this journey. I was almost constantly afraid of what was happening, what I was feeling, and where I was going.



I have lived through trauma and abuse, but this was different. This felt different. I couldn’t run from my struggle anymore. I couldn’t keep stuff shoved down and carry on regardless. I couldn’t neglect my needs because saving myself after overdosing (I called the ambulance) was cementing a promise to myself: I was going to do this. I was going to live. And in order to live, shit was going to get messy. Shit was going to come out from where it had been shoved down, below the surface, in order for me to learn how to cope with it. I was going to have to heal from it in different ways than I had previously (i.e. not in self-destructive manner).


I didn’t need to “get through it” anymore; this was my chance to heal the stuff I hadn’t been able to previously. Starting therapy was the beginning of that, of things coming out, of shit surfacing that hadn’t surfaced in a way that could be heard and healed before.


My suicide attempt was a rebirth in so many ways. I felt as though I was learning to walk all over again, except I was learning to walk with self-love rather than self-hatred. I was learning to walk without leaving myself behind. Instead, I was taking myself forward.

The emotions, the grief, the pain, the utter loneliness, and the desperation that followed the attempt were crippling. The post-traumatic stress symptoms I experienced were debilitating and terrifying. It was nothing I had experienced before. The only way I could navigate it was to head inwards and express myself through cartoons and writings.


I wrote and I drew, I wrote and I drew…Written words helped me describe my experience in ways spoken words could not. Blogging and writing for magazines gave me a community in which I could connect with people who experienced something similar.

Cartoons expressed knee-buckling symptoms and overwhelming feelings in a way that words could not. They helped me remember that my thoughts and fears are just that—thoughts and fears, not facts.

I still write, and I still draw. Both forms of expression continue to bring me a welcome relief from my internal experience.

There is no right or wrong way to heal. Go do whatever it is that helps you express your experience and helps you feel heard and understood.

You are worth the effort and the time.

You can find a more extensive collection of Amani’s cartoons and writings, here.

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Comments (8)

  1. bellla

    This is a wonderful post. Thank you for not only writing it, but sharing it. I’m so sorry for your pain. I’m very proud of you. Please keep writing and drawing if you are able.
    Sending love and prayers
    God bless

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  2. Abril

    I can relate something of what you’ve written here
    I found on write a way to heal, to help and escape I didn’t attempt to kill me again

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    1. bellla

      Sending love and prayers your way Abril

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  3. Bewellmind

    Wow! Great post and use of the cartoons. I liked that you used the phrase “rebirth” to signify the next chapter. Cheers.

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  4. Samantha mills

    Love This very inspiring

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  5. Raven

    I tired to commit suicide 5times

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    1. Raven

      But I need help for it and I’m trying to write a book about it

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      1. TWLOHA


        Our hearts are so heavy to hear that you’ve struggled with this. We want you to know that it is such a huge show of strength to share this with us, and that we’re honored to have been invited into this part of your story. It can be hard to share something like this openly, but we want you to know that you are not alone in this. We’d love to offer you some encouragement and discuss this further. Please email us at [email protected]

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