Losing My Best Friend Taught Me How to Live (But That Doesn’t Mean I Don’t Miss Him)
When my best friend died, I learned how to live
When my best friend died, I learned how to live
Feeling your emotions is healthy, and crucial even if you want to heal.
While waiting for the safety necessary for my brain to be ready to process them, my body has held these secrets, memories, and pain.
I have always been hard on myself, constantly looking for reasons I didn’t belong or why I had to try harder than everyone else.
Society whispers to us that our pain is too much to bare, so we learn to hide it away.
Grief, in some form, is a sadly inescapable aspect of love on this earth.
I questioned my existence, thinking that if my little brother—the brightest and most loving soul I had ever known—couldn’t find happiness, then why should I?
June 27th, 2018. It’s another cloudy, yet hot summer’s day in Texas.
I did not want my life to end. I wanted life as I knew it to end.
This is both a plea and a call to action.
“We’re all just walking each other home.” – Ram Dass
We hurt. We feel. We adjust. We emerge. Not without sore spots and an aching heart, but we do survive and we do heal.
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