Depression, Acceptance, and Being a Girl Who Likes Girls
you question your worth as you attend therapy while your friends have slumber parties.
Topic: anxiety
you question your worth as you attend therapy while your friends have slumber parties.
There is tremendous pressure to be a “good” crazy. To match the criteria, to see yourself in the depictions from books or television. To follow the straight line of recovery, as if it’s that easy. As if it’s a straight line at all.
Depression told me I wasn’t enough, it told me I was a burden, it told me that I wasn’t worthy of love.
It’s been a long time since I’ve actually enjoyed my birthday. Over the last few years, it’s been a painful reminder that with another year passing, I’m still a mess.
This was the kind of depression that made me feel lonely when I was being hugged.
If and when I find myself at rock bottom, I will make my peace there.
Getting to play with the artist that helped me find hope and purpose felt like a collective achievement, as though I was representing something bigger than myself, bigger than just that moment. It was about witnessing tangible proof that things do get better.
To read the stories of people, to quietly be involved in their struggles and their victories reminds me that it’s OK to be human, in all its flaws and all its glory.
I wish our doubts and fears made sense. I wish they would listen to the logic shown in the love of our friends and family. I wish they could be laid to rest with the simple knowledge that there is someone out there who cares.
We have all felt pain, even if we pretend we haven’t. I think this somehow brings us together. I think this might be called love.
When it all comes down to it, you are more than your art. You, as a living, breathing person, come before any of that—which is reason enough to take a medication that helps you stay alive.
No matter what I did, there was a lingering feeling that something about who I was, wasn’t OK.
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